Iâm really confused over all the outrage and apparent offense over Romneyâs âbinders of womenâ statement from the second presidential debate on DATE. Anyone who heard him or takes a moment now to listen to the preceding two sentences *should* be able to mentally insert the word âresumeâ into his statement.
In fact, if the phrase is considered in context Mitt Romney should be given some award by Working Mother magazine or the like. Seeks out women candidates? Check. Promotes based on ability instead of either gender or quota? Check. Flex time to accommodate family life? Check.
To add to my puzzlement, to my knowledge to date there hasnât been a single complaint of inappropriate conduct against Mitt Romney. Campaigns always bring out the worst of someoneâs background. Iâm fairly confident that you could name one or two (or threeâŠ.) of Bill Clintonâs accusers, or even Clarence Thomasâ without thinking too hard. But Romney? Nada. Zilch.
And I canât recall another politician ever using his wifeâs first name so frequentlyâand with such apparent affection and tenderness. While most candidates usually refer to âmy wife,â Romney must have said âAnnâ at least three times in his 10 minute speech at the Al Smith dinner the other night.
By all accounts, he seems to be a faithful husband, loving father, and concerned church leader and neighbor. I mean, seriously–whenâs the last time we heard accounts during a political convention of the candidate helping to hang laundry?
I think this speaks volumes of his character, and probably explains whyâwhen there is nothing else to slingâpeople have to work so hard to find something, anything, over which to be offended.
As for me, I got my first W-2 providing job at age 15 and have pretty much been working ever since. Iâve been in male dominated work environments, passed over for recognition in favor of a male colleague, experienced (mild) sexual harassment, and had trouble finding childcare so I could go to work. As a working mother, it would be a dream to have a boss like Romney.
So, to anyone who feels the need to be offended: Try adding the word âresumeâ to Romneyâs statement, and then let me know how you feel.
Editor’s Note: Also be sure to check out Sarah Bowman’s article on this issue.